Understanding the risks, setting boundaries, and building healthy digital habits from the start
Screens are now part of everyday family life. From video calling relatives to watching a favourite programme together, digital devices can support learning, connection and enjoyment when used thoughtfully.
For young children, however, online safety is less about the internet itself and more about how, when and why screens are used. The early years are a crucial time for language development, emotional understanding and social skills, all of which grow best through real-world interaction. At Happy Days, we believe in supporting families with clear, practical guidance to help children build healthy digital habits from the very beginning.
Why online safety matters in the early years
Children under five learn best through:
- Face-to-face conversation
- Singing, stories and shared play
- Movement, exploration and hands-on experiences
When screen time becomes too frequent, too stimulating or unsupervised, children may have fewer opportunities to practise these essential skills. That’s why current guidance focuses on balance, not banning screens altogether. Used well, screens can be a shared, calm and purposeful experience, but they should never replace connection, play or interaction.
Simple screen time principles for under-5s
These core principles can help guide decisions at home:
Co-view whenever possible – watch together and talk about what’s happening
Keep it predictable – short, planned screen time works better than frequent, unstructured use
Avoid background TV – constant noise and movement can make it harder for children to focus or play
Balance with real-world experiences – stories, outdoor play, messy play and conversation should always come first
Notice behaviour – if your child seems overstimulated, unsettled or withdrawn, it may be time to review screen use
Choosing low-sensory, age-appropriate content
Not all children’s content is the same. Some programmes are fast-paced, noisy and highly stimulating, which can overwhelm young children.
When choosing content, look for:
- Slower pacing and gentle storylines
- Calm narration and natural pauses
- Simple visuals rather than rapid scene changes
- Everyday situations children can relate to
Many parents find that story-based, educational or nature-focused programmes support attention and understanding far better than high-energy entertainment.
A useful rule of thumb: if you find it overwhelming to watch, your child probably does too.
Using parental controls and safety settings
Even when children are supervised, turning on safety settings adds an important extra layer of protection.
Most devices allow you to:
- Set age restrictions on apps, games and programmes
- Block inappropriate content automatically
- Disable in-app purchases
- Set screen time limits or downtime periods
These settings are usually found in:
- Device settings (Apple Screen Time / Android Family Link)
- Streaming platforms (Netflix Kids, BBC iPlayer profiles, YouTube Kids)
- App stores (age ratings and download approvals)
Taking a few minutes to review these settings can make a significant difference and give families greater peace of mind.
Talking to children about online safety
Even very young children benefit from simple, repeated conversations about safety.
You might:
- Talk about staying close to a grown-up when using devices
- Explain that some things are “for adults only”
- Encourage children to tell you if something makes them feel worried or confused
- Use stories and characters to introduce safety messages
These conversations don’t need to be formal, they work best when they are natural, calm and ongoing.
How we support online safety at Happy Days
While children are with us, we support their understanding of online safety by:
- Having regular, age-appropriate conversations about staying safe
- Using stories and songs to introduce simple safety messages
- Ensuring staff are regularly trained in safe device use and digital literacy
- Using devices with robust content filters and blockers
- Taking part in national initiatives such as Safer Internet Day
Our Safeguarding Policy and Child Protection Procedures also cover the safe use of electronic devices, imagery, social media and online safety.
Trusted online safety resources for families
These child-friendly resources offer stories, videos and guidance to explore together:
Childnet – practical advice and videos for families
Smartie the Penguin – songs and stories about using the internet safely
DigiDuck Stories – five stories for children aged 3–7 with activity ideas
Internet Matters – clear, practical guidance on parental controls and screen use
NSPCC Online Safety – advice on starting conversations about online safety
A balanced approach
Screens are part of modern family life and that’s okay. The most important things for young children remain unchanged: connection, conversation, play and feeling safe.
By choosing calm, age-appropriate content, setting clear boundaries, and staying involved, families can help children develop positive digital habits that will support them as they grow.